He was a young singer who gladly accepted $500 to sing at high school proms, yet went on to become a media billionaire. In his youth he had a crush on Errol Flynn. For a year and a half his roommate was Montgomery Clift. He lived with Roddy McDowall at the Dakota on Central Park West. He dated Rock Hudson, who encouraged him to keep his homosexuality quiet. As well, he had liaisons with Tom Drake, James Dean, Peter Lawford, Robert Walker, Gordon Scott (Tarzan), not to mention Marlon Brando. He was a regular at Liberace’s all-male orgies.
He neither confirmed nor denied his homosexuality, but Eva Gabor, his long-time beard, provided enough cover that he had access to the Reagan White House (he was particularly close to Nancy, with whom he shared a birthday, July 6), and he was an honorary pallbearer at the funeral of President Ronald Reagan in 2004.
As a teenager he was a church organist and piano prodigy, but at was his smooth singing voice that launched a career as an entertainer. During the 1960s he hosted his own TV talk show, usually crooning a song or two between guests. He created wildly popular TV game shows, such as Jeopardy and Wheel of Fortune. He wrote the theme music used on Jeopardy. He also owned casinos, hotels and resorts. He raised thoroughbred horses. He owned Paradise Island in the Bahamas.
But there was a dark side. Like most high profile gay men of his era, he married, but his severely closeted gay life produced a paranoia that kept his team of lawyers busy shooting down rumors and threatening those who spoke or wrote about his lurid gay life, which often included prostitutes. He was particularly threatened by openly gay men, more often than not firing his own employees who dared live openly and honestly gay lives. Two same-sex palimony and sexual harassment lawsuits in 1991 brought questions about his sexuality to national prominence. He dealt with them by beginning a high profile relationship with actress Eva Gabor, making sure photographs of them as a couple appeared everywhere. Nice try.
The man about whom I’m writing was Merv Griffin, of course. He died in 2007 at the age of 82.
Shown with beard-for-hire Eva Gabor in the early 1990s, at the height of the media frenzy over the same-sex palimony and sexual harassment lawsuits.
Well, he was an entertaining guy. Too bad he was hiding for so long--especially since everyone knew he preferred men. He fooled no one.
ReplyDeleteI really liked his shows, he was entertaining. I'm an out gay man living with HIV. But I till think he was great. Glad I didn't work for him though.
ReplyDeleteIn the 1980s in Palm Beach, he would be photographed with attractive young men attending society events. The photos would appear without comment in society papers, along with other couples straight and gay who were attending the events. No one gave it a second thought.
ReplyDeleteI never liked the man, as he always came across as arrogant and self-centered, but in his very early years, he was one good looking man! I hated the way he was always sucking up to the Gabors, especially ZaZa, whom I detested.
ReplyDeleteBecause he wished he could be as adored and lusted by men like one of those hungarian whores; he paid them handsomely NOT to have sex with them!
DeleteI was pretty surprised to hear that merv griffin was possibly gay, what with eva harbor and so on. I don't recall much about him but I just hope that with his fortune, he contributed to research and/or care for HIV/AIDS sufferers. Other than that, TO EACH HIS OWN.
ReplyDeleteany harbor in a storm-has anyone considered writing a book about spellcheck's unintentional humor?
DeleteTom Drake, "the boy next door," I didn't know he was one of us. I had a crush on him when I watched "Meet Me in St. Louis" for the first time!
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