Role models of greatness.

Here you will discover the back stories of kings, titans of industry, stellar athletes, giants of the entertainment field, scientists, politicians, artists and heroes – all of them gay or bisexual men. If their lives can serve as role models to young men who have been bullied or taught to think less of themselves for their sexual orientation, all the better. The sexual orientation of those featured here did not stand in the way of their achievements.

Thursday, October 8, 2020

Prince Egon von Fürstenberg

Eduard Egon Peter Paul Giovanni Prinz zu Fürstenberg (Prince Egon von Fürstenberg, 1946-2004), was a bisexual fashion designer, socialite and interior designer. A member of a German aristocratic family, he was a businessman who managed to keep his name in the press, tabloids especially. Although his given name ended in “zu” Fürstenberg, not “von” Fürstenberg, he chose the latter, because it was better recognized and understood by the public.* In any event, his proper form of address was “His Serene Highness.”

In 1969 he married fashion designer Diane Halfin, a Jewish Belgian-American whose mother was a Holocaust survivor. The marriage was opposed by Egon’s father, mostly for anti-Semitic reasons. Diane’s marriage to Prince Egon brought her a noble title and helped her fashion design business rise to international prominence. 

 


Prince Egon and Diane von Fürstenberg
 
However, the couple became estranged and lived apart after 1972, just one year after their second child was born. In 1983 Prince Egon remarried, this time to an American, Lynn Marshall. That union was childless. But during and between those marriages Prince Egon had many male partners. He was frank about his bisexuality and the openness of his first marriage. He even professed his bisexuality and drug abuse to New York magazine and the Italian daily La Repubblica. Many of his friends remember that among his favorite hangouts were the NYC gay bars Flamingo (for drugs – they had no liquor license at that time) and The Barefoot Boy – not to mention his legendary gay partying on Fire Island.

Fürstenberg certainly didn’t need to work, but he was fascinated by the fashion world. He later published two books on fashion and interior design: The Power Look (1978) and The Power Look at Home: Decorating for Men (1980). After a lowly start as a buyer for Macy’s department store and a designer of plus-size women’s clothing, he launched a successful men’s clothing line. Eventually he opened an interior design firm in New York City, but his career was forever in the shadow of his first wife. It was Diane, not he, who made the name “von Fürstenberg” a famous brand. 


Nevertheless, Diane and Egon remained life-long friends, and she gave him a professional push or two, helping to assure his success. His signature logo reflected noble blood and love for high society – a crown with a star (upper right in photo below). 



In 2004 he died in Rome at the age of 57, survived by his two children and both wives. There was a delay in revealing a cause of death, leading many to confirm what was known by his intimate friends, that his death was from AIDS. Later it was reported “officially” by his second wife that he had died from liver cancer. 



Egon with Errol Wetson and his wife Margaux Hemingway,
and model Pat Amari (right).
Photographed by celebrity photographer Gary Bernstein.

Egon was born with the proverbial silver spoon in his mouth. He was the son of Prince Tassilo zu Furstenberg and Clara Agnelli, the sister of Fiat mogul Gianni Agnelli. Egon was also a cousin of Princess Caroline of Monaco (b. 1957) and the King of Sweden, Carl XVI Gustaf (b. 1946). Although he was born in Switzerland, Egon grew up in a Venetian palazzo with a staff of 21 servants, one of the perks of having a mother with the last name Agnelli. 

In 1965, while studying economics at the University of Geneva, he met fellow student Diane Halfin, from a wealthy German family. After their marriage, they settled in New York City, where Diane started her dress business, and Egon abandoned a career in banking to attend classes in fashion design. The von Fürstenbergs were lionized for their trendy life-style and frank discussion of sexual escapades outside of marriage. They maintained a frantic social life and were among the revelers who participated in drug infused nights at Studio 54.

The Fürstenberg family first rose to prominence as a thirteenth-century noble house in southwestern Germany (Swabia), as part of the Holy Roman Empire. Their noble status was elevated to a princely house during the seventeenth century. Today there are two Fürstenberg  ancestral residences: a magnificent Baroque palace in Donaueschingen (first image below) and a Renaissance palace in Heiligenberg (second image). 




*Note: A German noble with “zu” before the surname meant that the family still owned the hereditary feudal land holdings and residence, while many un-landed commoners who were subsequently ennobled simply placed a “von” before the surname. Thus, “zu” carried far greater prestige. I know, I’m always telling you more than you want to know.
Sources:
Wikipedia, People Magazine profile (Dec. 21, 1981), NYT obituary, Village Voice

19 comments:

  1. That was a fascinating little eulogy - thank you! Jx

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  2. innocent bystanderMarch 5, 2017 at 11:44 PM

    "I know, I’m always telling you more than you want to know."

    Speaking as only one admirer, Terry, what I learn from you is never enough! Your blog is a treasure. Thank you!

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  3. Ditto... I love the side notes as much as the history... fills in ..
    and thanks again!
    Tim in paris

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  4. Absolutely, fascinating reading. Job well done.

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  5. Holly Kristen MadsenMarch 16, 2018 at 9:02 AM

    When I was modeling in New York with the prestigious
    agency *Wilhelmina* that would have been late 60's. I hung out with group of people ( all famous in their own right ) and Prince Egon was also in that group. He was known as the silly Prince, I went out with him a few times nothing serious and can well believe he had gay interludes.
    This was before he went back to Milano Italy to fetch Diana and marry her. So many memories and so many great times. Didn't know of his passing but the way Prince Egon could party wouldn't be surprised.

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  6. I was a friend of Lynn Marshall (Furstenburg) in Atlanta. She hung out at “Backstreet “ the premier gay disco. This is where she met Egon. And “yes “ Egon was a part tier ! And was alot of fun. Lynn on the other hand was rather a quiet person and very laidback. She came from a prestigious family in Mississippi. Her uncle Ray was Secretary of Labor under President Carter. Egon came to Atlanta to promote one of his books. This is when he meet Lynn . Lynn was very Gay friendly. I should get in touch with her and talk about “ old times “ at Backstreet and always giving her a ride to her condo and helping her to the elevator because she was usually so lit she couldn’t make it on her own !!!

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  7. I'm a cousin to Shirley Lynn Marshall, so my Father has told me for years...
    When I began working for Red Bull HQ'd in Austria in 2002, he sent me a picture of their sprawling 'Summer House' on a hillside. Reading your piece was so delightful, Terry! Used to love me some Backstreet Atlanta too...

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  8. The love of Egon's life was a top model in the 1970's named Bruce Savin. They had a wedding ceremony at St. Marks in Venice Italy in 1975.

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    1. Bruce Savin posted this himself.

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    2. My name is Steven I posted this

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    3. My name is Steven, I posted this about their ceremony because Egon would have wanted me to share the truth.

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  9. That is awesome! Wish I knew more about the beautiful Mississippi girl Lynn! What a beauty!!! :-)

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  10. I met Egon in Milan 1986 when I was there working for Gianni Versace. We met at a friends house who held an artists salon on Wednesdays. The host Sergio was playing the piano and someone was singing. I was sitting on a circular banquette.Egon came over and sat with me. He tried to introduce himself but the music was loud and we couldn't hear each other. He pressed his finger into the soft banquette and drew his name E-G-O-N. It was sweet and of course I knew who he was. We later rendezvoued at a Lux hotel in the small sailing village of Sestri Levante overlooking the Mediterranean Sea. And later in South Beach Fl. He was a fun guy and it was a magical time in my life!!!

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  11. I had a time with Tommy Marshall in New York, he went on to run Marshall & Company, society florists in the E60s. One day Tommy said his sister 'Shirley' (Lynn) was coming to NYC from Mississippi and could she stay with us for a while. She moved in, was a delightful Southern girl and would arise at the crack of noon, spend 4 hours on her make-up (she was a cover girl cosmetician) and then go out for the evening. She was stunning when made up and we'd go out - I was living at The Meurice - and all ages from 12yos to 80yos would gawk at her and even walk backwards down the sudewalk just to look at her. What fun! We'd go to Studio 54 etc.
    One day we were chatting, as the 'few days' visit by now was a month and I said, 'Shirley, what are you going to do in New York?' Her reply seemed romantic but hardly practical. She said, 'I'm gonna marry me a prince'.
    And so she did! Go Princess Lynn von Furstenberg x

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  12. LOL Hi everyone, I worked for Prince Egon in NYC as his personal assistant, I did everything from his fashion shows to his PR work and press releases, I knew Lynn, she was absolutely stunning and very polite, I was so complimented when one of her friends told me that I looked like I would be a younger sister of hers and I did party with the beautiful people alittle at studio 54 but not as much as Egon as I had to get up early in the am and run his business. As his assistant back then I made peanuts compared to what these personal assistants make today, I must say he never carried any cash on him and he was also very cheap with his NY staff!

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  13. Egon was a sweet man. He was gay but lived with the constant pressure of publicly being "bisexual". In his later years he officially came out. Egon had a twinkle in eyes and a kind heart. We lived together for many years, and yes, I'm a man.

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  14. I was a friend of Lynn first in Atlanta then in NYC.... She stayed with me for a few weeks once when she was involved in a taxi accident in which she was injured. Incredibly beautiful, charming and kind. We had tuns of fun at Studio 54 with her and brother as well before he passed away from AIDS. Fond, fond memories of “Shoiley Lynn”. I’d love to reconnect with her.

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  15. I met Egon on early nineties in SOUTH BEACH FLORIDA

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