Role models of greatness.

Here you will discover the back stories of kings, titans of industry, stellar athletes, giants of the entertainment field, scientists, politicians, artists and heroes – all of them gay or bisexual men. If their lives can serve as role models to young men who have been bullied or taught to think less of themselves for their sexual orientation, all the better. The sexual orientation of those featured here did not stand in the way of their achievements.

Monday, July 1, 2013

Frank McCarthy & Rupert Allan

You have likely never heard of Frank McCarthy or Rupert Allan. Both were WW II military leaders who became movers and shakers among the top echelons of Hollywood’s elite. They even included presidents and European royalty among their personal friends. Publicist Rupert Allan (1913-1991) had many star clients, chief among them Bette Davis, Rock Hudson, Marilyn Monroe, Steve McQueen, Gregory Peck, Deborah Kerr and Marlene Dietrich. A Rhodes scholar and a lieutenant commander for intelligence in the U.S. Navy during WW II, Mr. Allan went on to establish a career in journalism, working for the St. Louis Dispatch and Look magazine. In 1955 he forged a new career as a publicity agent, rising to the top of that profession. He was a popular and respected publicist, and invitations to his Beverly Hills home were highly coveted.

As West Coast editor for Look magazine, one of Rupert’s first interviews was with Marilyn Monroe, who asked him to represent her.

Below: Rupert and Grace Kelly at sea.

Also among his clients was Grace Kelly, and when she left Hollywood to marry Prince Ranier of Monaco in 1956, Rupert was a press representative to the high profile wedding. Notably, he defused a potentially explosive situation when 1,600 journalists showed up in Monaco to cover the event, when only 40 had been expected. So thankful was Princess Grace for his skill in controlling an unanticipated difficulty that she appointed him Monaco’s consul general in Los Angeles. Later, in 1989, Prince Rainier made Allan a Chevalier of the Order of Grimaldi in honor of his service.

Mr. Allan had a house on Sea Bright Place in Beverly Hills, and his life partner, film producer Frank McCarthy (1912-1986), resided in a somewhat grander, larger house right next door. Through his association with Rupert, Frank got to know Grace Kelly well, and when Princess Grace visited Los Angeles, she and her children would invariably stay in Frank’s home. She loved the two men like brothers, and to her credit, Princess Grace always admonished anyone who made disparaging remarks about homosexuals. By today’s standards it seems an unnecessary caution that two men had to maintain separate homes to keep the nature of their relationship from the press, but such were the times.

McCarthy was a retired brigadier general who had served as an aide to General George C. Marshall during WW II. At age 33 he was the youngest man ever appointed Assistant Secretary of State (1945), and he became personal friends with Presidents Truman and Eisenhower. Frank had a diverse career as a journalist, press agent and war hero, but he eventually became a film producer.

At age 58 he won an Academy Award for producing the film Patton (1970), a project he had worked on for nearly 20 years. It was Frank who went to the podium to accept the award for best picture. For his portrayal as Gen. Patton in this film, George C. Scott won the Academy Award for best actor, but he refused to attend the Academy Award ceremony, so Frank accepted on Scott’s behalf. The next day Scott refused his Oscar, and Frank returned it to the Academy.

"Patton" producer Frank McCarthy, above center, holds two Oscar statuettes, for best film and best actor, on April 16, 1971. Left to right: Karl Malden, who played General Bradley and accepted the award for director Frank Schaffner, with Goldie Hawn, Steve McQueen, and Jeanne Moreau.

Note: Patton's Oscar statuette is on display at the Virginia Military Institute (VMI) museum in Lexington, Va., where generations of Pattons received a military academy education. VMI is known as the West Point of the South, and interestingly enough, Frank McCarthy himself had attended VMI, graduating in 1933. An honors graduate, Frank later taught English at the institute before becoming a newspaper reporter.

McCarthy had left VMI with the goal of breaking into show business, and he was able to secure work as a press agent, but with the outbreak of war in 1941, he reenlisted, becoming an aide to Gen. Marshall and attaining the rank of major by the age of thirty. His honors from World War II included the Distinguished Service Medal and Legion of Merit, and Officer of the Most Excellent Order of the British Empire. In 1976, McCarthy donated his war-time papers to the George C. Marshall Research Foundation, which is located on the VMI campus. Frank served on the foundation’s Board of Trustees. The 33 boxes of documents covered the years 1941-1949 and include correspondence with the likes of Irving Berlin, Eleanor Roosevelt, Nelson Rockefeller, Frank Capra, President Eisenhower, Jose Ferrer, Dean Acheson, Darryl Zanuck, Henry Cabot Lodge and George Patton – an eclectic mix of military, political and entertainment royalty. It should be noted that the collection contains eight letters between Frank and his partner Rupert Allan.

McCarthy was being groomed for a cabinet position in the Truman administration when he abruptly withdrew his name from consideration due to an undefined "illness." At the time, it was not possible for even a completely closeted homosexual to serve in such a high-profile capacity, even though he had the protection of powerful friends – his ex-boss, Gen. George C. Marshall, had lobbied strenuously to end the prosecution of gay servicemen. McCarthy's “retirement” was in fact a sad act of political self-sacrifice. However, he returned to Hollywood and worked as the head of public relations for 20th-Century Fox, acting as an in-house censor to trouble-shoot problematic material during production.

It was about this time that Frank and Rupert’s relationship was cemented. It was relatively easy for the couple to “hide,” since both were completely masculine in appearance and demeanor – and utterly discreet. Even though they lived for decades as lovers and next-door neighbors, details of their personal relationship were known only to Hollywood insiders. When they attended the same party or business function, they invariably escorted female companions to counter any speculation about their personal relationship, and they always acted surprised to see each other. When Frank died of cancer in 1974, Rupert issued a press release in which he stated only that Frank was “unmarried” – an act of self-censorship. In 1991 Rupert died in his sleep at his home in Beverly Hills from age-related complications.


  1. I was fortunate enough to have known both Rupert Allan and Frank McCarthy. They were wonderful people.. The photo you posted of Rupert and Marilyn Monroe is not actually Rupert. If you go to Google Images and search for Rupert Allan you will see directly to the right of the photo you posted an actual photo of Rupert and Marilyn.

    1. Please contact me per Mr. McCarthy about whom I am writing when aide de camp for the army chief of staff, George Marshall. My e-mail is Phone is 785-749-2314. General Marshall, a most extraordinary man, thought the world of Colonel McCarthy.

    2. I removed the photo. Thanks for pointing out that error.
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  2. I was fortunate to have known Rupert Allan and Frank McCarthy, they were wonderful people. The photo you have of Rupert with Marilyn Monroe is not Rupert. If you go to Google Images and search for Rupert Allan you will see the photo you published. Directly next to it is another photo which actually is Rupert and Marilyn. Having known Rupert I am absolutely certain that the second photo is actually Rupert Allan.

  3. The posted photograph of Grace Kelly is likewise not with Mr. Allan. The gentleman over her right shoulder is Morgan Hudgins who was Ms. Kelly's MGM publicist at the time of her marriage.

  4. The Oscar is not located at the VMI museum, but is in fact on display at the George C. Marshall Museum in Lexington.

    1. The Marshall Museum is on the grounds of VMI in Lexington, VA, facing the parade grounds.

  5. Id like to speak with the author of this story.

  6. I knew Rupert and Frank. What wonderful men. I have fond memories of times I dined with them at their marvelous house in the Hills overlooking LA. We would also visit when Rupert came to New York. One time when we got together in LA`, Jeanne Moreau was staying in their guest house. She cooked dinner for us, poached fish, and we sat at the dining table and watched on TV the Oscars. Another time Sydney Pollock and his wife joined us for dinner to discuss fundraising for the Actors Studio..seems there was talk that evening of Natalie Wood, but maybe not. Frank and Rupert had a wonderful art collection, which included huge posters by Toulouse Latrec, whom they referred to as FloTrec. Rupert came from Missouri and had so many scandalous, gothic midwestern stories about his family. Wish I had been successful in getting him to publish them, but he was very discreet. Fine dear men. The best. Rupert told me that Marilyn was very smart, read all the time, that the breathy voice was an act, an affectation. She once said to him, 'Rupert, we are all just salmon, swimming upstream.' He and Frank loved culture, and were big supporters of the arts in LA. I remain grateful for their loving friendship. Thanks to all who posted here. Special memories.